Some royal wedding guests are reportedly not being allowed to bring their partners, ruffling a few feathers. But why is the plus-one issue always so tricky?
“Plus one” causes almighty headache for the bride and groom but also for the guests those who were invited to the royal wedding. Apparently hundreds did not receive a plus one from Prince William and Kate Middleton. They had to leave their partners at home.
For any bride and groom, whether they are from a royal title or not, the dilemmas involved seem endless. A lot of question marks are on their minds and at the end, they have to make a decision.
This “Plus one” form of inviting can cause discussions between friends and even end a friendship. Weddings used to be smaller and more personal in the past but now it seems to be that guests naturally bring their partner with them.
Some people do not choose for the plus one form because they are financial a bit tight. But others are very clear that it is not their problem what the personal situation of the bride and groom is. And if the guests are still choosing to bring their partner, that may cause difficulties for the bride and groom.
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My opinion:
When I am going to marry I will think of my guests. For us, it is typical that we have very big weddings with a lot of people. We do not give one invitation per person, but one invitation for a family.
I understand people who use the plus one form of inviting if they are financial tight or do not know the partner at all. But I think that you should accept partners from friends/families if they have a long-term relationship or are simply married.
Some people do not invite the partner of do invite the partner but not the children. That can be ridiculous too. It could be possible that your guests cannot arrange a babysitter. Then they will have to bring the baby/child/children or simply stay at home and not come to your wedding.
I think you should think very good before you make a guest list. Think about your financial situation regarding the place where you want to party, catering, invitations, wedding dress etc. And what your budget is. Then make a guest list by starting with your family, friends, colleagues etc. I would invite partners and children of my family and friends. But if I invite colleagues I would invite their partner if my financial situation allows me.
Think very good and make sure you will enjoy your wedding!